Jane knows my biggest pet peeve. It's being pigeon-holed and judged on the basis of classic negative stereotypes of a man and/or father. I remember the first day of a child-rearing class when the instructor thanked everyone for being there, especially us Dads. Why especially? Why assume that every Dad had to be dragged kicking and screaming to spend a few hours trying to improve their parenting skills, when they could have been home watching ESPN drinking beer? It makes my blood boil. Jane is good at running interference and cutting people (her friends) off when they head in that direction.